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Welcome To The Mid-Life Crisis
Growing up, the mid-life crisis was often depicted as a middle-aged man selling the family mini-van to buy a sports car. Or maybe having...

Brian W Arbuckle
Dec 13, 20234 min read


Success and Failure Are Figments Of Our Imagination
My son discovered the stage a little later than I did. He’s mostly a “left brain” kid – or has been up until recently (with math being is...

Brian W Arbuckle
May 12, 20234 min read


The "Value" Of Hard Work
While driving through my neighborhood the other day, I saw many neighbors out in the yard mowing. All of them sitting on these big,...

Brian W Arbuckle
Apr 13, 20233 min read


Why > What
Show of hands – how many of you are in the "I don’t know what I want to do with my life” phase? It can hit anyone, but is particularly...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 22, 20233 min read


Other Paths Aren't Evil
When I worked at the American Academy of Family Physicians, one of the perks was shutting down between Christmas and New Years. As I’ve...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jan 5, 20233 min read


The Lie Of Hard Work
I'm going to get a lot of hate for this one. Today – I’m going after a sacred cow. I’m going to be called a snowflake. Y’all are going to...

Brian W Arbuckle
Nov 3, 20224 min read


The Downside To Goal-Setting
We live in a goal-driven society. Everyone has vision boards and KPI matrices…we set goals for New Year’s resolutions, work goals, life...

Brian W Arbuckle
Oct 27, 20222 min read


Update Your Resume
I'm giving you an assignment: If it's been two years or more since you last updated your resume? Get it done in the next two weeks. Why?...

Brian W Arbuckle
Oct 17, 20222 min read


Fixing A Mistake
It comes as no surprise to anyone who has followed this blog or checks me out on Linked In: I’m a huge proponent of using your PTO. I’m a...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jul 7, 20223 min read


In Defense Of The Participation Trophy
Ah, the age old “kids today” argument. But it’s in a new guise – the participation trophy – argument. It goes something like “kids today...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jun 24, 20223 min read


Take Your $%^&&*$ Vacation!
I am back from two wonderful weeks of vacation. At some point this week, I was scrolling through Linked In and I saw this tired, overused...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jun 16, 20223 min read


Your Opus: Leaving One Song Behind
The other day, I was flipping channels on the TV and one of my favorite movies was wrapping up: Mr. Holland’s Opus . If you haven’t seen...

Brian W Arbuckle
May 3, 20223 min read


What Are You Going To Do With Your Dash?
When my sister and I were little, we were playing a board game. An argument broke out and my poor mother lost her stuff. The board game...

Brian W Arbuckle
Apr 14, 20224 min read


Hard Work Or Suffering?
Everywhere you look, there’s talk about ‘hard work.’ We worship at the alter of hard work. Virtually every job posting states: “looking...

Brian W Arbuckle
Apr 12, 20223 min read


Do What You Love And You'll Never Work?
Anyone familiar with the phrase “do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life?” I hear it pitched around Linked In like it’s...

Brian W Arbuckle
Mar 23, 20222 min read


Snow Day: A Tale Of Two Companies
Sipping coffee this morning and looking out at a fresh blanket of snow…it brought to mind two experiences I’ve had in my career. Company...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 17, 20223 min read


Ride The Lightning
I come back to this video from time to time. I'll let you watch the full frame-up, but Hugh Jackman wasn't supposed to sing during this...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 7, 20222 min read


The Race To Zero Empathy
I posted a message to Pope Francis about his message around the selfishness of small families. The feedback from my community was...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jan 20, 20223 min read


The World's Worst Advice
I don’t know why we continue to perpetuate and buy into the world’s worst advice. What is that advice? “If you do what you love, you’ll...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jan 3, 20223 min read


The Problem With Problems
I’ve seen an ugly trend bubbling up across my work-world…and personal-world, including social media. We are becoming a society of...

Brian W Arbuckle
Dec 13, 20214 min read
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