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Welcome To The Mid-Life Crisis
Growing up, the mid-life crisis was often depicted as a middle-aged man selling the family mini-van to buy a sports car. Or maybe having...

Brian W Arbuckle
Dec 13, 20234 min read
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Success and Failure Are Figments Of Our Imagination
My son discovered the stage a little later than I did. He’s mostly a “left brain” kid – or has been up until recently (with math being is...

Brian W Arbuckle
May 12, 20234 min read
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The "Value" Of Hard Work
While driving through my neighborhood the other day, I saw many neighbors out in the yard mowing. All of them sitting on these big,...

Brian W Arbuckle
Apr 13, 20233 min read
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Why > What
Show of hands – how many of you are in the "I don’t know what I want to do with my life” phase? It can hit anyone, but is particularly...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 22, 20233 min read
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Other Paths Aren't Evil
When I worked at the American Academy of Family Physicians, one of the perks was shutting down between Christmas and New Years. As I’ve...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jan 5, 20233 min read
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The Lie Of Hard Work
I'm going to get a lot of hate for this one. Today – I’m going after a sacred cow. I’m going to be called a snowflake. Y’all are going to...

Brian W Arbuckle
Nov 3, 20224 min read
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The Downside To Goal-Setting
We live in a goal-driven society. Everyone has vision boards and KPI matrices…we set goals for New Year’s resolutions, work goals, life...

Brian W Arbuckle
Oct 27, 20222 min read
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Update Your Resume
I'm giving you an assignment: If it's been two years or more since you last updated your resume? Get it done in the next two weeks. Why?...

Brian W Arbuckle
Oct 17, 20222 min read
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Fixing A Mistake
It comes as no surprise to anyone who has followed this blog or checks me out on Linked In: I’m a huge proponent of using your PTO. I’m a...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jul 7, 20223 min read
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In Defense Of The Participation Trophy
Ah, the age old “kids today” argument. But it’s in a new guise – the participation trophy – argument. It goes something like “kids today...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jun 24, 20223 min read
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Take Your $%^&&*$ Vacation!
I am back from two wonderful weeks of vacation. At some point this week, I was scrolling through Linked In and I saw this tired, overused...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jun 16, 20223 min read
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Your Opus: Leaving One Song Behind
The other day, I was flipping channels on the TV and one of my favorite movies was wrapping up: Mr. Holland’s Opus . If you haven’t seen...

Brian W Arbuckle
May 3, 20223 min read
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What Are You Going To Do With Your Dash?
When my sister and I were little, we were playing a board game. An argument broke out and my poor mother lost her stuff. The board game...

Brian W Arbuckle
Apr 14, 20224 min read
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Hard Work Or Suffering?
Everywhere you look, there’s talk about ‘hard work.’ We worship at the alter of hard work. Virtually every job posting states: “looking...

Brian W Arbuckle
Apr 12, 20223 min read
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Do What You Love And You'll Never Work?
Anyone familiar with the phrase “do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life?” I hear it pitched around Linked In like it’s...

Brian W Arbuckle
Mar 23, 20222 min read
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Snow Day: A Tale Of Two Companies
Sipping coffee this morning and looking out at a fresh blanket of snow…it brought to mind two experiences I’ve had in my career. Company...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 17, 20223 min read
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Ride The Lightning
I come back to this video from time to time. I'll let you watch the full frame-up, but Hugh Jackman wasn't supposed to sing during this...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 7, 20222 min read
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The Race To Zero Empathy
I posted a message to Pope Francis about his message around the selfishness of small families. The feedback from my community was...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jan 20, 20223 min read
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The World's Worst Advice
I don’t know why we continue to perpetuate and buy into the world’s worst advice. What is that advice? “If you do what you love, you’ll...

Brian W Arbuckle
Jan 3, 20223 min read
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The Value Of Downtime
Being "always on" isn't heroic, it's reckless. You owe it it everyone in your life to create downtime for yourself. There's a saying...

Brian W Arbuckle
Feb 15, 20172 min read
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